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The Myth of Multitasking

We all love to brag and say that we multitask.  The notion of doing multiple activities at the same time is empowering. But do we actually get those things done in the most efficient way?  A colleague of mine, Ellen DePasquale, author of It’s About Time (Time Management Tips From The Software Revitalist) argues the fact that we are indeed not multitasking, rather in reality, we are “task-switching.”  The ability to focus on many tasks simultaneously and giving them our full attention is almost impossible. We are not robotic machines and as a result, something will be compromised. With the more daily activities, we often do them by rote, and so we pile more tasks on top of them because we think we can handle it.  But as we take on more, the complexity of what we are doing may be distracting us from doing anything well.  DePasquale writes, “besides the inability to focus well and being prone to distraction, when you task-switch you lose time between tasks.”  She simply suggests, do one thing at a time.  It makes perfect sense to immerse yourself in one single activity and do it well.

 Honestly, how many of you on any given day, have started doing a laundry, then decided to sort the mail, began paying some bills, perked the coffee, passed by the computer and decided to check your inbox, emptied the dishwasher, bagged the garbage, ran upstairs because your cell phone was ringing, and invariably, misplaced something along the way, or even forgot what task you were doing in the first place?   It’s OK, we all do it because we think we can do it all.  I, for one, am going to try to stop being Superwoman and juggle too many things at the same time.  This is a tall order, for sure, so I will attempt to abandon the following habits:  No more talking on the phone while reading or writing important e-mails (we all do it, and it is kind of rude when it is done to you); no more phone chatting while trying to cook a detailed meal (I inevitably forget an ingredient); no more driving and eating, while talking on the phone (even with hands free, this is neither safe nor good for digestion).  However, you will probably still catch me unloading my car, carrying  way too many packages on both arms, hands and all fingers burdened with the cell phone, eye glasses, sunglasses, keys, and most likely a beverage, all to save time from making multiple trips into the house.  In most case, something usually drops or breaks. Maybe one day I’ll change….but in this regard, probably never.

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Are You Buried In Paper?

It is a fact that the number one violator of clutter, is paper. It is coming into our homes at a faster rate than we can sort it! You can’t prevent the invasion of your bills, but you can opt out of the magazines you know you are never going to read, catalogs and product solicitations, etc. by going to www.catalogchoice.org and www.optoutprescreen.com for removing your name from pre-approved credit card lists. Type in unsubscribe in search bar.

As for the other incoming mail, try to create a nice consistent landing place, so that the papers requiring your attention will be easily found. Weed through often and isolate the junk mail. Toss it, recycle it, or shred it….just get it out of the house. There is certainly enough paper that we must keep, we surely don’t need to hold on to paper we will never want or need. You may even want to do the junk mail sort at the mailbox and toss it before it even enters your home.

As for the mountains of other kinds of miscellaneous paper, you need to be honest with yourself. If there is literature that you haven’t referred to in a considerable amount of time, you need to let it go. If you are holding onto sentimental paper (like old greeting cards, invitations to old events, children’s art, etc.) evaluate carefully, select and store just a special few. There are papers, however, that never should get tossed and should be kept indefinitely, like vital records, tax returns, legal documents, etc. There are other records suggested to be kept for at least 7 years, like bank records, deductible receipts, credit records, any tax-related documents, etc. Since the IRS may go back 7 years to audit your tax returns, you should have those papers in order and organized. There are papers that can be tossed after 1 year, and those that can be tossed just after your payment is verified on the next bill. What to to keep and what to toss is a personal decision, but if you are overwhelmed with paper, it is time to manage it. Get the help you need, it’s here if you need it.

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Secrets of An Organized Wallet

When your wallet is bursting, and all those crumpled receipts and dollar bills have no order to them , it’s time to clean out.  In fact, it is a great habit to weed often.  If every day is not realistic, then try to weed weekly.  Pick a day, any day, and empty out the entire wallet.  Know what stuff you have in there. It shouldn’t be a mystery, it’s yours.  Put your currency in order, put the loose change in a designated jar, and most importantly label your receipts.  Most stores have a computer print out with the description of  the item on it, but there are some that have an ambiguous cryptic code, or secret department number, and you have no clue what you just bought.  Trust me, I am speaking from personal experience, and it is life changing.  On top of every receipt, I jot down what the item is, so if I need to return or exchange, I’m not frantically pulling out wads of paper searching and reading every one.  Make life easier for yourself.  It’s good to be organized.

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A Small Save Can Reap A Great Reward

Not sure everybody knows this, but I must share this little tidbit about buying an orchid from Home Depot.  Orchids are one of  the most beautiful flowering plants and although they do not need a lot of care, people tell me they are really hard to keep alive.  Seriously, you barely have to water them.  Just make the valiant effort and buy the raffia and bamboo sticks to help out a little for support and growth.  Clearly, loving the plant is not sufficient.  Personally speaking, it was the perfect plant for me; low maintenance and hard to mess up, but it seems that I’ve already over-watered this one.  If you have had one, and killed it, there is good news, but only if you have SAVED the receipt!!!  If you purchased it at Home Depot, (within a year) bring back your dead orchid (so sad) with the receipt, they will refund your money and you can buy another one!!  So if you do not have the green thumb thing going on, you can have an orchid your whole life.

So be organized with your receipts, and save them for guilty pleasures.

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Back To School Mania

Chances are if you are a student, or a parent of one, this is the time that you are probably making multiple runs to Staples; Bed, Bath and Beyond;  Target; and the like.  Although the summer is not over, it’s time to think about  organizing for back to school and college prep.

I, for one, am no longer either, but I am still a lover of office supplies, sharpened new pencils, and creating new file folders. I happened to be in Staples this week scoping out the latest and greatest new products, and noticed a line way too long, with unhappy children and overwhelmed mothers bewildered with the mandatory school supply list.  By the way, I was impressed that the generic marble notebook has morphed into great new design covers.

At Bed, Bath, and Beyond, it was a similar vibe only it was Mothers with their college age children, and I felt both the friction and the frenzy.  Been there, done that.

The good thing is that everybody seems to be organizing!  No need to stress, this doesn’t mean the summer is over, it’s just the little voice in your head that is alerting you that a new season is upon us.  Still time to play in the sun, just be ready to get your mojo on to start addressing those neglected projects!  Stay tuned for some organizing tips for getting back into a productive rhythm for September.

But as for now, staying in the moment… the crowds are mounting and it is becoming abundantly clear that I’d better get to Staples tomorrow to pick up more computer paper and printer ink cartridges before the crazies fill the store!

As for the towels I need at Bed and Bath, they can wait.

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New Press Release

FYI, “Networking” is named accurately because, guess what? …..It works !!! I did a spotlight presentation about my organizing business and services, and a DJ from IRadio of Hauppague wrote a very complimentary and informational commentary of my presentation. It was published in the Long Island Small Business Owner Magazine. I am eternally grateful for his support. I have since gotten many referrals. Click on this link to read more. The title of the article is “Hey you, Move the Mess”.

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Summer “Bucket List” Woes

It’s about that same time now, each summer we repeatedly have the same regrets.  It’s about the second week of August and we all get a sense that the summer is fleeting, and once again, we didn’t get to do all those things we promised ourselves we would.  How does this happen?  Year after year, it’s the same thing.  We start with the kick-off of Memorial Day weekend, and we’re thinking we have the whole summer in front of us, then in what feels like an instant, it’s July 4th that sneaks up on us, and boom…..it’s somehow August.  Summer camps are finishing up, and we go into a panic because we can smell Labor Day.

So what I’m trying to convey to all you procrastinators out there…..while it is still gorgeous and warm out, get to the beach, clean out that garage, take the hike, ride the bike, and embrace the summertime before the leaves start turning.  Be outside, do something fun.  Go through your wish list, and check off something.  There is still time.  Eliminate regrets.

As for myself,  my summer bucket list is longer than I would like, but I promised myself this year I would regret less, do more.  I picked a hard summer to satisfy this goal since I just moved, but I managed to stick in a beach day, an overnight in the country, a theater day in NYC, and I’m just getting started.  There will be many more days for me on the beach, on a golf course, and watching the sun set somewhere.  I hope this feeling  is contagious for you, my Internet friends.

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